“We do this not because it is easy. We do this because we thought it would be easy.”
The picture in a high school gymnasium of these words on a banner came across my feed, posted by “Real Estate Humor,” and I easily caught the levity in it, though a fresh realtor having begun only a month earlier. Truthfully, I began to understand that this could apply to a number of endeavors, as I have begun to learn especially with this industry. Few professions are precisely as you imagined them and are often not the “never work a day in your life” dream jobs you perceived, though they still, if you choose the right perspective, can be an authentic joy to perform.
The perception of the suave realtor rolling up in the pricey convertible, making the deal and collecting the bankroll, then heading out to happy hour every evening — I have yet to run into anyone who has succeeded in this business who resembles anything close to this image. The fact is, those who have remained in it, even for the roller-coaster markets, while they may have spared no expense for the eye-catching headshot, these folks, let me tell you, are no slouches. If you’re the introverted type, even more so. Anybody who’s good at this, just like anyone in any chosen profession, you don’t get good at without plenty of practice.
I’m not a salesman. This much I know. Fortunately, I’ve had the fortune of landing in a brokerage, thanks to a friend, which isn’t primarily interested in treating people first like sales prospects but like, well, people.
It’s a bit of a surprise to me, if I’m honest, but equally refreshing to know that I can put aside artifice or inauthenticity and just be a human being. Maybe I’m too green to feel jaded yet, but I hope not. There’s something attractively gospel-centric about this approach, and I hope that remains the case no matter the duration.

The hat in the picture will soon be a part of my semi-daily dress. And I hope you will ask, but only if you want to hear about it. If not, let’s just have a conversation about whatever, and share a relationship. And when you’re ready to get a little help with a home, I’ll be happy to do just that — help.
After all, that’s all any of us should aspire to do in our respective vocations.

